The thing that my male friends have never understood is the concept of sexual assault. Yes, I know that many victims are young boys, but a boy isn’t taught to fear for his safety the way a girl is in childhood.
The need to travel in groups isn’t stressed as much. The curfew delineation is joke, where girls have to be home hours before boys do. If a boy encounters a physical attack, he is taught to fight back and let the other guy have it! Why is it that daddies meet their daughters’ dates with a shotgun in every little dating anecdote, but not their sons’ dates?
Girls are instructed to keep their heads low and out of trouble, because not only can they get beat up—they can also get raped and impregnated. This added fear to anything from attending a ballgame to walking in a parking lot at night serves to disenfranchise and dismember the power of women even further than the constraints of politics, religion, and medicine. Read more